Digital Parenting

I’m an Occupational Therapist.  I became one after graduating from the OT program at the University of North Dakota December of 1988.  I became a parent in October 1992.  Cell phones entered my life and made my parenting digital in June of 2006.

First it was flip phones and finding a cheap texting plan.  Then it was dealing with paying for overages of texts, then came unlimited texting.  Then Smartphones entered the field and social networks and notifications.  Now digital parenting is a major part of parenting.  Not only in the United States but around the world.

160 characters per message is a challenge to parenting that will not go away. We can thank Friedhelm Hillebrand for the length of text and twitter messages.  There is a wonderful site specific to cell phones and family life. This link will take you there.

Digital parenting is not the problem.  How we cope with cellphones and incorporate them into our parenting is the problem to address.

It is not an easy thing to raise a child today.   Virgina Satir agrees.

Parents teach in the toughest school in the word: The School for Making People. You are the board of education, the principal, theclassroom teacher, and the janitor, all rolled into two. . . . There are few schools to train you for your job, and there is no general agreement on the curriculum. . . . You are on duty, or at least on call, 24 hours a day, 365 days a year, for at least 18 years for each child you have. Besides that, you have to contend with an administration that has two leaders or bosses, whichever the case may be. - Virginia Satir

 

150 thoughts on “Digital Parenting”

  1. pmI wonder if an ad in the little paper published on the South Side of Chicago would be helpful? Reward $100.00 for the most aliases used by Obama which can be verified.You can remain anus.moonyLittle paper in Chicago means it’s a small local paper just with neighborhood information.

  2. A good choice; I’d say Ellsworth’s book has a leg up by virtue of its action sort of sprawling all over the page, creeping into the margins and creating a sense of circulation… Wax Cross reads to me just a little more straightforward for its tight, sharp panel arrangements. Maybe the narration distances me a little too, while Ellsworth works mainly in harried dialogue… small distinctions, but the sense of absorption is important to me in narrative psychedelia.

  3. Helle Klein skriver:Till Stefan: Tack för din info. vad gäller valbarheten. Var det sÃ¥ att det förr i tiden räckte med biskopsvigningen för den som inte frÃ¥n början var präst – har ju funnits sÃ¥dana i historien, professor exempelvis?

  4. Mun mentaliteetille sopii just hyvin tuo ajatus. Miehen mielestä nimittäin valokuvaus on ehkä jotain 90% välineurheilua (ainakin silloin pahimmillaan ), ja mun oli todella vaikea edes tarttua kameraan silloin. Halusin vaan KUVATA. Tosin täytyy myöntää, että ajattelin pakata matkalukemiseksi jonkin tekniikkaa koskevan kirjan, nyt se voisi ehdottomasti tehdä välillä hyvää.

  5. This is one gorgeous salad with all of the different colors. It just pops. I might even get my husband to eat Brussels sprouts when he sees this. Love the pomegranate seeds too. I was able to find them in a jar in our produce section, so I was able to avoid the mess of seeding a pomegranate for a winter salad I made recently. Have a great week.Sam

  6. I am already starting a collection of toys for our daughter to last the next few years. I want to get her a really sturdy and colorful set of dishes. The Classroom Café Dining Play Set fits my needs very well! I love the amount of pieces you get as well as the colors! Does it get any better than 100% recycled toys?!?!

  7. While I wouldn’t … While I wouldn’t want a guy whose job is sitting on his butt watching tv and playing COD all day, I wouldn’t know how to deal with a guy who made 100K a year. I grew up not having much, and I dated dudes who were in similar straights. I’m the type who will help pay the tab, or we take turns paying, etc. I don’t ask for a lot, and I feel uncomfortable when a guy buys me something expensive. It makes me wonder what he really wants. Was this answer helpful?

  8. me You should not take a plane from Ushuaia to USA.You are so near to Buenos Aires and Cataratas de Iguazu, that should at least visit one of them.A pain that you don’t mentioned it to newspapers. The history could incentivated some authority to gift you a free travel as award.[]

  9. Татьяна:Господа, неужели 199 год ничему не научил???!!!! В это врмея была куча пирамид — от МММ до Хопер-Инвест. Люди вкладывали последние деньги, а в то врем не платили НИЧЕГО по месту работы, продавали квартиры, дачи, машины, в общем ВСЕЁ!!! Получили ПОЛНЫЙ П……. ЕЦ!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Неужели ТАКИЕ такие УМНЫЕ, ВЗРОСЛЫЕ и т. п. опять ведуться на это??????????????!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  10. Tack för besöket, vi har varsitt tungt ämne även om din calle har hittat sin grej i en verklighet som vi inte borde ha i vårat avlånga land, det ska inte behöva finnas någonstans överhuvudtaget. Människor bör ha en värdighet i sina liv och just nu så kommer med all säkerhet hemlösheten att öka och det enda jag vill ska öka och höjas är högkonjunkturen.Miss Pidgin/Fancys senaste inlägg..

  11. rusty83 To Stephen, I’m glad that you had the courage to pull the plug even though you were mid stream. That’s awesome you got an internship at an ad agency. I’ve also done a copywriting internship at a local ad agency. Advertising and marketing is filled with creative, smart people. I’m trying now to develop my marketing knowledge and skills and get a full-time job as a writer. Good luck and I’m glad that you are happy with your decision. Me too. James from Selloutyoursoul.com

  12. Dezperado,Se JEB se tem demitido da primeira vez que pensou faze-lo (ao fim de 4/5 meses de mandato), creio que não haveria azo a especulações.Neste caso, estou apenas a falar para os meus botões: O que é que mudou assim tanto? Ainda para mais, há um mês atrás dizia que estava concluída a reestruturação do Grupo Sporting. Pelos vistos não…

  13. it better than I could have.This man does not need his head examined, he is perfectly sane and he is showing amazing courage in the face of extreme trials ahead. It's just that in the comfortable West we have forgotten what this kind of courage under duress looks and sounds like!God bless him and his compatriots!

  14. hi Terry , IM just starting to come right again after playing around on northburn over the weekend ,looking forward to being there next year . Small problem at present is that i recieved a tee shirt top but paid for a long sleeve one ! i like the tee so happy to pay for that and get a long sleve . please confirm this .regards ,terry connolly ,(109) cheers

  15. Quina ilu m’hagués fet l’haver de fer-li companyia i costat a la Nimue i als seus vegetals… Bé, vegetarià-vegetarià no ho sóc del tot, però a aquest pas, em queda poc. :*Tolero certes carns i peixos (ben pocs, nets i polits!), i per tant, el meu menú quasi bé hagués estat el del “pica-pica” en plan “súper” (amanida, croquetes i calamars, nyam-nyam!) i unes verduretes com les de la Nimue.¿Entrecot?. Luthien, ara t’entenc a tú i al teu genoll…jajaja. Jugues fort, eh, noia!… “Bon apetit!”.

  16. Comfrey is the queen of my garden. I started out with one plant and now have about seven or eight! I have successfully grown comfrey in black plastic pots for years. The holes are big enough for the root to leave the pot and go into the earth in search of nutrients. The pots help to control its spread and allow me to move them around the garden. You can also cut the leaves of the comfrey and lay them on the soil as mulch for other growing plants–great weed control!

  17. Det offentlige rum skal være for alle og bør indrettes så alle uanset fysisk handicap uhindret kan bevæge sig rundt. Offentlige bygninger bør også være indrettede handicapvenligt.Jeg så fornyligt i en offentlig bygning et handicaptoilet på 5. sal, men paradoksalt nok stoppede elevatoren på 4 og der var kun trappe det sidste stykke og til 5. sal.Jeg er derfor helt enig med dig i dine synspunkter

  18. Gratulon al David pro tiu impona prelego!Gratulon pro la retejo, ĉefe pro la enhavo kiun mi klopodos legi, iom post iom, ĉar ĝi aperas kiel io nova, same, mi imagas, kiel Abya Yala, la Okcidentaj Indioj aperis al Kristoforo Kolumbo en lia unua vojaĝo.Mi pretas helpi en la traduko al la kataluna lingvo, tial mi sekvos viajn instrukciojn.Kore mi salutas vin! |

  19. MaLquE:Si me imagino cuanto le toca pagar a Kiku, porque a los contribuyentes chicos siempre les cargan la mano y nunca les perdonan nada.En cambio a los empresarios amigos del "presiso" les toca pagar una mierda, a plazos y como si nada.Que es que es que es????????

  20. Qu’importe le bord politique, en l’occurrence, on ne peut qu’apprécier les résultats.Du concret, du pragmatisme, le soucis de la responsabilité devant les citoyens, et celui du respect de l’équilibre économique et social sans lequel notre société se tire une balle dans le pied et hypothèque son avenir.Tout ceci fait défaut presque partout dans notre pays, de manière croissante au fil des décennies.

  21. Little Space: You are welcome at any time! @pigpigscorner: I didn't think about of using it earlier until I have too many bags left in the pantry! :-)@Mythreyi Dilip: Thank you!@nora: Kids have no problem to eat spinach this way. And I wish you a happy relaxing weekend too!

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  23. This is a beautiful piece. I’m glad universities are still in tune with placing great art work pieces around the campus. A lot of people I know don’t get the concept, but being an artist and former art major myself, I see the importance in it. Thanks for posting!

  24. Cody,Could you clarify what you mean in your first statement? I think I understand, but I would hate to assume anything.I concur 100% with your last statement, especially based on what I also read in 1 John 1:8– “If we say we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us.”SOLA GRATIA!

  25. he wants a multi-year deal, and we’ll suck with or without him. We can’t match his production but we certainly can improve on his defense (by a lot). Besides, I’d rather have everybody on the team producing runs rather than relying on one (actually two) power hitter. Especially when that guy is only hot for half the season (the half that doesn’t matter when you’re already really far out). I’d much rather spend on pitching and wait for the farm to produce.

  26. Saliun se beson me njeri tani…..as vet nuk i beson me genjeshtrat qe nxjerr nga goja, se dikur i ka pas besuar. Jeton te boten e endrrave por i ka rreshkitur keq nga dora dhe nuk ka me endrra vetem pallavra te pakaperdishme qe te mbysin e te ngecin ne fyt kur i degjon. Kujton i shkreti se jemi akoma populli i ’92 shit. Aty ka ngel ai. Cfare po pengon opozita….1. Zgjedhjet – po i vjedh Saliu e po na turperon ne gjithe boten. 2. Korrupsionin – po e ben administrata e paafte dhe e pangopur duke e rrjepur kete popull. 3. Gjyqtaret kercenohen hapur nga Z. Kryeminister. Po, integrimin po e pengon qellimisht qeveria.

  27. Hi Maepress! I am going to try to have a couple more Melancholy Monsters before the holidays! Hopefully soon, but I have a few more orders and gallery show pieces to get through next week. Thanks! 🙂

  28. It’s editorials like that in the NYT that encourage me to believe that we are witnessing the hegemony of bourgeois bolshevism in its death throes. Its ever-increasing stridency and censoriousness is not evidence of strength but weakness. They know they are losing the battle. The only concern is whether it is replaced by ever more insane leftism or a movement back to the right.

  29. Podría ser Eduardo. Pero la realidad, es que prefiero siempre pensar en empresas que esté marcando máximos en lugar de otras que estén volviendo desde el abismo… entendes?

  30. This is a fantastic post–I'm sharing it with my network.Mike Shatzkin predicted the impact of the demise of agency pricing several months ago–that deeply discounted ebooks from traditional publishers would seriously diminish a major discoverability advantage for self-publishers.

  31. she was tempted too! Exciting news… can’t believe you’ve finished at the shop! How does it feel? What’s the plan now? You guys would love Sri Lanka it’s soo beautiful! Although I imagine Molly probably broke the bank of mum and dad in New York! Lots of Love to you all Nats xxxxxFebruary 27, 2012

  32. Hola,enhorabuena por tu páginamuy interesante todo.Te encontré de casualidad, yo estoy buscando nuevos métodos culinariosy nuevos productos para transpolar a las dietas de adelgazamiento.Soy Médico y me dedico al adelgazamiento.Se aceptan ideas y sugerencias.Recibe un cordial saludo

  33. Hi there! This post could not be written any better! Looking through this article reminds me of my previous roommate! He always kept preaching about this. I’ll send this post to him. Pretty sure he will have a good read. Many thanks for sharing!

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  38. in het begin dacht ik ook van what the hell is that? maar, bij nader inzien door de foto’s te vergroten zijn het volgens mij alleen maar vlam bollen dat van de zon afschiet.maar space ships.. nou neeeeeh..

  39. No I haven’t seen it, but thanks for the link. I guess we can now say that social engineering clears out civilization faster than a runaway nuclear reactor in Ukraine.The general area:N 42.44316 W 83.11028″In the worst neighborhoods, much of the population is unemployed and illiterate…participating in a largely underground economy where crime festers.”Technically, then, they’re not unemployed. It’s that no one wants to hire them for the federally-mandated minimum wage.

  40. Hallo,unter was soll denn Blog denn alles ran­ken? Videos, Musik, Gewinnspiele und alles was sonst noch so Besucher einbringt?Ich will es mal vor­sich­tig aus­drü­cken. Um mit den Gewinnspielseiten weit oben gefun­den zu wer­den, feht Deiner Seite ein­fach das Vertrauen GrüßeGretus

  41. I’ll gear this review to 2 types of people: current Zune owners who are considering an upgrade, and people trying to decide between a Zune and an iPod. (There are other players worth considering out there, like the Sony Walkman X, but I hope this gives you enough info to make an informed decision of the Zune vs players other than the iPod line as well.)

  42. Its like you read my mind! You appear to know so much about this, like you wrote the book in it or something. I think that you could do with some pics to drive the message home a little bit, but other than that, this is wonderful blog. A great read. I’ll definitely be back.

  43. Deine CSS-Datei definiert alle Bilder als float: left und damit wirkt dies auch auf die Smileys. Ändere es ab, so dass die Formatierung nur für Bilder innerhalb des Beitrags gilt.

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